Gaining

I don't think that's rare at all. I have a working theory that feeders turned feedees get the fattest because you push yourself to eat the way you'd expect a feedee to eat. That's been my experience anyway. It doesn't help that stuffing and gaining is addictive.

Yes, people switch pretty often.

As I child I had both feedee and feeder fantasies, but after puberty was feeder only.

I know that I could easily become a feedee. I have been a casual gainer this past year and I could just as well be a feeder as well as a feedee. I have been a subtle encourager of my wife's gain for many years.

I think this applies to me. I'm not completely into the feedee side yet but I am considerably more than I used to be.

When I started lurking on here, I admired women that had gained some, now years later I have just made a commitment to myself to actively start gaining.

I think this is very common. I used to be a feeder only, was afraid to gain, because I thought that no women were into this. Then I met a lot of them and I could tell they were real, many of them very attractive and then I started gaining and being also a feedee. I think everybody is a feedee and feeder at the same time, but might only act out one or the other. I know that when I'm a feedee, I have a part of me that is feeder that wants me to gain and balloon up, when I feed myself and make myself gain. I love to be in the position to give and receive at the same time, to be a feeder and feedee, so basically a mutual gainer. Unfortunately, these are really rare I found.

In high school I fattened my girlfriend a little she knew I was doing it she knew I liked it but around grade 11 something happened. I was always fat but her pudge didn't do anything for me. Grade 12 I was a full blown feedee.